Archive for October, 2008

Child Learning Disabilities

Wednesday, October 22nd, 2008

While learning has always been easy for me, I had friends who are dealing with child learning disabilities. Most cases were mild, but there are children who have serious problems, and many times these problems go undetected. These children are often labeled as problem children and are desciplined as such. They never have a fair chance because they are hampered by the disability that labels them as trouble-makers rather than just children who need extra help with their studies.

One of the most common child learning disabilities is ADHD. Although this was something that was recently been recognized and accepted, it has been around for a long time. My older brother had, and he was labeled as a trouble maker, and finally expelled from school. My brother was a good kid, but this more frightening to the child learning disablities, gave him nothing but problems. Although he was simply trying to overcome what is before him, he was seen as someone who has been labeled as “un-teachable.”

I am ashamed of this school district, and I know I will never send my children there. My mother went several times to talk about these child learning disabilities, but nobody would listen. They thought there was law, and there is nothing you can do to change his mind. I wish that my mother had a mind to raise a great stir at the time, maybe it would have made them a different look at what they did. If they thought it could really have a child learning disabilities that are out there, may have been able to help, and his life could be better now.

If you suspect that your child is in acting-up in class for reasons you can not understand, you may want to see if they have child learning disablilities. There are many times when children have problems, and not because they are bad because they can not keep up, they can not see the blackboard, or may be even have hearing problems. They may nave also  ADHD, or maybe they have one of the many other children learning disabilities there. There is usually a very common pattern of disruptive behavior, and if more parents and children take the time to find out, there would be many more children graduating from high school.

Crafts For Kids

Tuesday, October 14th, 2008

What are this crafts for kids?

It seems that we become a society of complainers. People love complaining about how different our children are growing up compared to how we were raised, but no one wants to take responsibility for this. If children spend the time to do things which we consider to be unhealthy, it is not our responsibility as adults to offer them to other activities?

When I was growing up Sundays were family days. We would either have relatives over for dinner or we would be invited to a relatives home. The main meal of the day was eaten at noon, adults play cards and the children would play outdoors in summer and in winter, we could make some type of crafts. Who ever was hosting the Sunday gathering would supply  the crafts for children. It was during a Sunday afternoon that I learned how to sew, paste, stamp, and make jewelry. Many of the projects were simple things that we could complete in the afternoon, but others things that we should work for several weeks. My aunts and my mother was very creative in coming up with crafts for children that held our interest and improved our skills.

Now, that I am a parent, I continue the Sunday tradition going with my children. We stay home more than we go to relatives, but the day includes a grand meal and crafts for children in the afternoon. We started this as soon as the children can safely handle the items necessary to create a variety of handicrafts. Now that the kids are getting older they sometimes include friends in crafts for children on Sundays. Once in a while there is some complaining for not being able to play the computer, but this usually ends when the craft projects are done. I still enjoy doing different projects so I can come up with a wide variety of crafts for children, that are fun and help them learn to create. My daughter has taught me how to knit. she wanted to make a scarf that required knowing how to knit. She bought a video that showed how to knit step by step,  then she showed me how to make one. Crafts for children do not need to be elaborate and expensive. The main goal is to help children understand that they can create things with their hands and also have a time each week when you can relax and enjoy the company of family members.